Unobstructed

Five women are out to breakfast on this rainy Tuesday.

There's a fire crackling on the projector of this conference room.

Whatever I was expecting, it wasn't this.

How could it have been that heavy? I mean, surely I would've noticed... right? Wouldn't I? Apparentl...

It's mid-morning but I've been up since 3:45am.

"You always look like you're coming from a run."

I don't know how to do this.

I have no idea why I stopped.

I'm not convinced age is the almighty arbiter of enhanced perspective that we think it is.

Lots has been said about living by those who've already done it.

I don't really know when I became "the trailer guy."

Radical acceptance is cool and all, but what about acting on what you've accepted?

Since I've been trying to be better about sharing the process instead of just the product, here's my...

My high school teacher said something in passing that I still use daily.

I think connection might be overrated. Maybe. I’m not saying it’s always a bad thing, but I am sayin...

My approach to "morning pages" is slightly unorthodox, but it works for me.

We locked eyes, but only briefly.

Why does the conversation about the male loneliness epidemic completely skip over the part where exp...

Finally.

At first I wasn't sure if she was talking to me.

The casualness of the pivot feels odd.

No one likes going to the doctor. Right?

Red light.

I've long wrestled with feeling like too much.

Long before there was social media, smartphones, or AI, it seems like people more or less had this “...

Really dropped the ball on that one.

I think time travel might be real.

I was just happy I made it back before dark.

This is unequivocally the wrong venue.

Have you ever wondered how much a roof really costs? I used to think it was paid for in hours spent....

Ok this is steeper than I remember.

A text from a friend made my eyes bulge out of my face like a cartoon character.

I never really get to feel the moment I’m in.

Watching someone do the thing they're meant to do is so, SO cool.

I can't tell if I'm just a total curmudgeon or if social etiquette really has declined this much.

I want to show you something.

My doorbell doesn't ring that often.

I'm not even a little bit surprised by how fast things flipped.

I did a whoopsie and now I feel bad about it.

I shouldn't have been there.

In a weird way, I feel like I'm losing a friend.

I catch sight of one of the art pieces hanging on the wall across from me and freeze.

I told myself I was just going for a walk.

I'm still blown away by Steinbeck's East Of Eden and I'm not done with it yet, either.

At least it's a different coffee shop, right?

Since I've been trying to be better about sharing the process instead of just the product, here's my...

Now that it's here, it sort of just feels like any other day.

Make it real first, make it make sense later. While this adage doesn’t apply to everything in life, ...

"Just the coffee?"

I was standing in the grass and then I wasn't.

Today I took myself for coffee.

Some people just plunge ahead into the road and trust the folks in the cars to adjust.

I heard they have a new pill for treating skepticism. I’m not buying it…

It's 2006.

"I don't like space!"

It's hard to believe.

Screw it, I'm making a second cup of coffee.

"Coming from somewhere fun?"

When I get there, it'd better be good.

"Oh it's happening... don't you worry."

Since we're just about to the finish line of the MAP Year Project, I'm going to level with you.

"Did you poop?" is not a question I expected to hear today.

It's late and I should really go to bed but I can't put this book down.

“I’d love to go to New Zealand, but I don’t know if my bank account will let me.”

I recently read a Note on Substack from Linda Caroll where she admitted the rise in AI is making her...

"Hey, you look like you could live here."

I'm walking up to the counter. Where there are usually two menus in front of the register—one for fo...

The first drops are light and I'm close enough that I could still go back.

I didn't want to do it, but I had to put Buckeye down.

When I was still relatively new to living in Jackson, Wyoming, I remember snowboarding with a traini...

Going at your own pace seems wrong.

Music was a big part of my life growing up.

It was the shrug that bothered me.

How to express the sheer magnitude of this...

It was pretty much a scene from a sit-com.

This is huge. Like, hasn't-happened-in-years level of huge.

Not to brag, but I said hi to four people on my trail run today.

It's downpouring. Rain is pelting the glass and I'm feeling the infamous writer's "resistance" for t...

What is it about me that keeps people at a distance?

Any guesses where this photo was taken?

There's this video that's been in my "watch later" queue on YouTube for... I don't even know how lon...

It's summer here in New England, which means longer days and (hopefully) more leisure.

That hollow, echoey, slapping noise sounded very much like a bone breaking.

Avoiding grief only makes things worse.

We took an excel class in sixth grade and I had no idea it'd be such a big part of my adult life.

Today was a build day for me.

Ever catch yourself after saying something and think "Wait; who was that? Did... did I just... is th...

In less than a second, all the confidence I had vanished.

I'm not convinced that my default level of self-awareness is a good thing. I get in my own head a lo...

I recently read a quick, update-style piece from Maggie Rogers and it got me thinking about accessib...

“I’m sick of following my dreams. I’m just going to ask them where they’re going and hook up with th...

I will not absorb the responsibility of regulating other people on their behalf.

We were the last house before the cul de sac and our yard was part of its perimeter.

Ok, interesting...

"If you could've been born with elite-level proficiency in one skill, what would you have wanted it ...

On any given day, I’m caught somewhere between wanting to take a trip with no return ticket and want...

Sometimes people articulate my own ideas much better than I'm able to.

Well, I'll be damned—they changed it.

With a huge exhale, I dare a glance at the timestamp.

One year ago today, after tearing apart and rebuilding one of my websites, I published a piece about...

Well that's... odd.

I'm blinking through a bleary fog that won't clear.

I grew up believing that I had to come up with a really, really great idea and then protect it like ...

This hill's 1,000 feet and I'm at the bottom of it, making my way back up after reaching the midway ...

My eyes are unfocused, staring out the window at... I don’t know what.

Ava woke me up this morning with an unassuming nudge. That's not the abnormal part, though.

I'm sitting by the back windows as the storm clouds roll in.

Aaaaaand we’re back!

"Yeah, I don't know... I try not to think about it."

When Isobel asked if I wanted to bike down to the water to watch the sunset, I hesitated. Doing some...

Sure, I'd been nervous... but this is happening.

BURLINGTON, Vt., July 5 — After seven years on the run, one very sweaty and disheveled man on a moun...

My eyes are closed but I can still see the sun.

We're heading back from the lake; walking through the woods in the dark.

I keep meaning to put some music on, but I've been wearing my headphones in silence for ages.

It's going better than expected.

Since I've been trying to be better about sharing the process instead of just the product, here's my...

I'm watching Hidden Figures and I can't shake the skin-crawly feeling on the back of my neck. There ...

You find what you look for.

Sometimes it feels like I've been living out of a suitcase for my entire life.

The mental gymnastics of modern self-help truly baffle me.

I'm outside, tucked under a canopy of trees, sitting along the river by the bridge.

It’s dark but not black.

Why did the gamer take a ladder to school?

I'm watching Noah Kahan's new documentary, Out of Body, and it feels like I just got slapped in the ...

Figures, the parking lot's full.

Brakes! The brakes!! HIT THE BRAKES!

I don't want to talk about AI anymore.

Ducks in a row are not the same as ducks on the go.

There’s a dad with two young daughters at a table nearby and when he bends down to help retrieve a d...

I'm searching for something to watch and it's making me more and more frustrated.

The flustered flapping of feathers catches me off guard.

I'm walking around the block this morning, testing my sprained ankle that I just freshly reaggravate...

Henrik Karlsson writes stuff that makes me start speculating wildly about "what if?"

I was an avid reader when I was a kid, and I can pinpoint the exact moment when that stopped being t...

It's always the palette cleanser that does it.

When I was a kid, we lived in the suburbs of Boston and I dreamed of one day living a life of advent...

I shouldn't have come here.

I'm sweating profusely; let's... um, ok how about we just leave it at that?

I went running today but I probably shouldn't have.

Last night Isobel and I were talking about my comfort with public speaking.

The table I like was open, so I snagged it.

I did not have “hibachi chicken” or the memories tied to it on my bingo card for today.

It's not often that I get stage fright.

The expression across from me looks hurt more than frustrated.

I'm traveling for a conference this week and it almost ruined my daily writing streak.

Delayed gratification is cool and it's not that hard to pull off.

I thought it might be sore but I didn't expect it to hurt.

I don't know why I never thought of it like that.

Since I've been trying to be better about sharing the process instead of just the product, here's my...

I've been feeling like a shitty friend lately.

Trying to stay in-the-loop perpetually leaves me feeling exhausted and worse off.

Today, I'm celebrating 5 years of sobriety.

It's nearing the end of the work day and I'm in my kitchen.

If you've ever asked yourself "why—WHY—did I say that??" after an especially awkward interaction, co...

Ever heard of the meditation app Headspace?

Being the last person standing is not the only strategy for becoming successful, but it certainly ha...

Lately, I’m seeing a lot of cultural commentary about how things like "taste" and "discernment" have...

Sometimes, relatability's the best medicine.

I live near a lake that seems to have all the answers.

I'm so glad Isobel and I decided to come home last night instead of staying, and camping, like we'd ...

Today's day 265 of this year-long challenge.

One of my favorite things to do is to try and notice the things that other people notice.

For someone so highly attuned to the people and places around him, there's one area of social discou...

I know the question's coming and I'm braced for impact.

I'm running by the water just absolutely drenched with sweat, head-to-toe. Sorry. There's really no ...

I got dressed to go running today, but never went.

Maybe it won’t look catastrophic from the outside. You might not even see it coming, either, but the...

Ok, but what if it works out?

It's five past eight, I'm late, and I don't even want to go, anyway.

I'm rounding the corner on my bike and looking over my shoulder in the opposite direction. No cars i...

You know, how certain smells remind you of a distinct memory of your grandmother? Or, how a certain ...

I was dripping sweat, but refusing to slow down.

This angry voice was the same one from before, so what happened?

I'm about to head to the register when I double-back.

One day you’re going about your daily life, just as you normally do, when, seemingly out of nowhere,...

I'm zoning out with the water running.

Instinctively, I start turning the volume down immediately.

I feel smoke rising from my ears.

Why did the metronome get promoted?

I got a new basketball, but I hadn't played since I was a kid.

I hadn't realized I was stuck until I found myself scrolling on Substack.

Thunder boomed and lightning struck.

I'm on my fake, morning commute as a remote worker (aka a walk around the block) when the podcast I'...

I'm thinking about whether or not balance is actually achievable while sitting at my analog desk.

I'm waiting patiently to pay for my coffee while the cashier's chatting with the guy in front of me.

I'm walking through the grocery store and I hear "dad, you gotta use your brain here."

Today's not off to a great start, so I skip my morning pages and try something different.

I was sitting in a local cafe and found myself tearing up.

When the timer went off, I couldn't resist saying "pencils down."

I'm fairly certain my neighbor's not a lunatic. And if they are, perhaps they're benign enough...

We teach boys to hide their shame, and then wonder why men struggle with loneliness.

I'm just focused on getting us there in time for sunset.

This is a pretty inconvenient intersection and the light just turned red.

It makes sense in my mind but... now I need to figure out how to explain it.

I could feel it when I opened the door.

I used to jump off these cliffs and into the water 60 feet below.

I’m watching myself perform on national television... this is WILD.

I'm going to tell you a secret.

We desperately need role models of healthy, secure masculinity. I can’t believe it’s controversial t...