What's your 'why'?
Years ago, I gave an unorthodox talk to an auditorium full of high school students.
Before going on stage, my mouth had been so dry that I basically walked back and forth between the water fountain and the bathroom while going over my talking points in my head. I'd been invited to share my story by the school's principal because a student had heard me speak before and told them about it. That'd felt good, but I was still super nervous. I'd made sure they knew what they were signing up for— that my story weaved its way through some rather heavy mental health topics and included more than a few strategic swear words. I'd learned that young people around that age think they're getting away with something because of it, so they end up paying more attention.
As I was about to go on, I pulled a button-style pin from my bag. It's light blue, and has the words "Know Your Why" written across it. It was given to me at another event where I'd spoken. After taking a final swig of water, I remember pausing a moment to really think about that button.
At first, I'd struggled with the idea of sharing my story. It felt really pretentious... gaudy, even. Like something I most definitely shouldn't do. But I'd learned that my unconventional backstory could make other people feel less alone. That talking about the things that helped me go from suicidal high school student to capable wilderness guide (at the time) would be offering a hand to someone in need. The letters and messages I received after speaking confirmed it. It's the reason I keep that button on my desk to this day.
I'm looking at it right now. And I still need the reminder because it pushes me to use my gifts instead of hoarding them—so others feel less alone and more capable.
That's my "why."
If you're so inclined, I'd love to know: what's yours?
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Do you keep anything by your desk (or near your workspace) to remind you of who you want to be?
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