You know when someone does something that immediately makes you feel stupid for not thinking of it?
Well, that happened to me today at a coffee shop while I watched a person and their dog settle into a table. At first I was amused—the dog looked to be some sort of pittie mix with white fur, wearing a very fashionable, multi-colored sweater. And by the looks of it, it’d actually been a human sweater once upon a time.
From my spot against the back wall, I watched as the pair got comfy at the table in front of mine, facing the window.
Good view for the dog.
Smart.
This person seemed completely unhurried; but also, it kind of seemed like they were on a deliberate mission. They were focused, but nonchalant about it. After setting their bag down, and wrapping the dog’s leash around the feet of the table, they went to get a coffee. The dog surveyed the rest of us with a glance, but didn’t budge. When their owner returned, they took out their laptop and turned to hand a Kong stuffed with treats to the pup in the multicolored sweater.
I think my jaw actually fell open.
Damn...what a pro.
They were aware of their environment, but not like how I am... they showed up and confidently set their own conditions. Even though I tell myself I do that, too, I immediately recognized the difference: I show up ready to respond, and that’s not the same thing.
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onward.